When you come to understand your worth:
You’ll stop caring he chose her and know if he couldn’t see your worth back then, he still won’t see it now.
You’ll stop thinking about all the ways you weren’t enough for him and know he never would have been enough for you.
You’ll stop replaying all the things you could have and should have done better and know you never have to be more than you already are for someone to love you perfectly, now.
You’ll stop believing you need to strive for the perfect body just to earn his attention and approval and instead fall in love with the girl in the mirror, flaws and all.
You’ll stop wondering why he couldn’t see you and instead wonder what you ever saw in him.
You’ll know you are so much more now than you’d have ever been with him, anyway.
You’ll know you are everything worth loving, exactly as you are.
You’ll know you didn’t lose; he did.